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Long Overdue Blog Post; Censoring Bondage Videos.

Before I get into the substance of this post, know that the inspiration to write came to me following a casual review of one of my two favorite sources (Slate and Drudge) for national news. In this post, I’m writing on a Slate article titled, “British Government, Terrified of Female Sexuality, Is Censoring Bondage Porn.”

Why Slate and Drudge, you might ask. I prefer to read news from sources that are unapologetically opinionated, timely, topical, entertaining, and which are meaningful to me. I like to tell people that I get my news from Comedy Central and my comedy from network news.

The recent article, “British Government, Terrified of Female Sexuality, Is Censoring Bondage Porn” tells us that the British Government recently banned “spanking, caning, aggressive whipping, penetration by any object ‘associated with violence,’ physical or verbal abuse (consensual or not), urination in sexual contexts, female ejaculation, strangulation, face-sitting, and fisting (if all knuckles are inserted).”

Wait a second. You can ban a lot of things, but do not dream of touching urination in a sexual context. I know people that will be crushed. In all seriousness, it is difficult to see what troubled the British Government about any of these sexual, consensual acts between adults.

As some of you may be aware, I have decided to complement my sensuality and life coaching with work as an actress in adult films. Adult films that depict sexual acts convey ideas and messages that sometimes conflict with society’s standard narrative promoting monogamy, patriarchy, guilt, sexual repression, female subordination, etc.

The article provides, especially with respect to its ban on female ejaculation, that “it’s no surprise that Britain is using its censorship authority to ban expressions of female pleasure and power.”

The article goes on to conclude that “porn isn’t dangerous because it’s harmful; it’s dangerous because it’s vivid and graphic—and vivid expression is the most compelling and persuasive kind. The government and its censors claim to object to mere images. But in reality, they are terrified of ideas, especially the same idea that has terrified men from time immemorial: the notion that women, too, can be powerful.”

Indeed, ideas are powerful and dangerous to the establishment. Bondage pornography shows that there is value in female sexuality, value in a woman’s sexual organs, that societal sexual norms are arbitrary, and that a woman’s body belongs only to her.

My work as an adult film actress contributes to and builds upon my central message, bringing it to the masses, that sex and sensuality are integral to the free expression of our fears, desires, secrets, quirks, and insecurities. Neither sex nor sensuality belong to the government, religion, convention, or any other institution.

Part of my work as an actress is to portray characters having sex in unconventional situations and positions (including some involving bondage and female orgasm), arousing and pleasuring myself and my fellow actors in ways that are creative and unique.

The goal of my work as an actress and as a sensuality coach is to empower viewers and clients to claim their sexuality, to recognize that sexual desires (whatever their form) are generally healthy, to express such sexual desires without guilt or reservation, to use sexual expression as a vehicle to confront and treat past trauma, abuse, or embarrassment, and to empower others to embrace sexual desires and activities as part of a life well-lived.

If a prospective client was bullied or embarrassed as a child, what better way to address and confront such issues than as part of a sensuality exercise. Pain, embarrassment, and feelings of submission can come to be associated, indirectly or otherwise, with sensuality and sex, rather than damaging trauma.

Others that have no history of trauma may simply want to explore new parts of themselves, spice up what has become monotonous, or relinquish control of one small, but extremely meaningful aspect of their overburdened lives. This is the opportunity for those that may usually be in control to be guided to pleasure and fulfillment without shouldering the burden of leading and being in control.

By way of conclusion, Britain should cast off its Victorian past, embrace healthy sexual expression, and bring back Bondage.

3 Responses to Long Overdue Blog Post; Censoring Bondage Videos.

  1. mike withers

    Couldn’t agree with you more. I just wish more men and women shared our views.
    I especially enjoyed your comment you get your news from Comedy Central and comedy from
    network news.
    I would love to get info on where I can purchase your adult films. I’ve visited Brazzers web
    site but no luck. Maybe I just need to allow a little more time.
    Thanks
    Mike

    • Laura Bentley

      Mike,

      Thank you so much for your comment and your contribution to the dialogue. I hope this blog can become a real exchange of ideas. Like you, I wish more people shared our views. But if you could meet the amazing people I meet, and see the world from my point of view, you would be encouraged. Society’s approach to sex and sensuality is not static; it is changing for the better (healthier views of sex and sensuality are increasingly common).

      I admit that I stole the part about getting my news from Comedy Central from somewhere that I can’t remember. If only I were that creative. It is amazing how easy it is to inform viewers and to expose deceit and hypocrisy with archive video and comedic timing.

      Please check out a sampling of my acting work on this website. If you become a VIP member of my website you can enjoy watching me in some self-directed scenes. I will be adding additional content in the near future.

      If you are interested in seeing me act in professionally directed scenes, I was told that my recent work would be available from Brazzers in January. Just like you, I won’t see the final cut until it is available from Brazzers. I can hardly wait! :)

      Also, I left for Las Vegas today to play some new and exciting roles where I act in scenes with well-endowed actors. When I find the time, I plan to blog about what is involved in acting in adult films. I’ll be on set early tomorrow in Las Vegas absorbing details and gathering information for my next post! I am so excited about this next opportunity to spread my ideas regarding open sex and sensuality and to inspire others to explore themselves, to give and receive pleasure, and to reject ignorance and moralism. Wish me the best and come back to my website for the details.

      • Mike Withers

        Just watched your video on Naughtyamerica. I was completely blown away. You were fantastic.
        Hope to see more video in the near future and
        I still want to see you in person.

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